Sally has lived in her home for 60+ years with the love of her life
Edward. After Edward’s passing, Sally remained in their home but no longer goes
out because during her marriage Edward did most of the driving and
she is uncomfortable behind the wheel. Her friends who used to come around
are slowly dying or moving off to be with family. Now suddenly, Sally feels
alone for the first time in her life. Sally's family notices the
change in her social behaviors and recommends that she move to a
senior community where she would have more opportunities socialize. After
the move however, Sally's family notices she is not taking part in activities
and has maintained in her 'hermit-like’ ways despite the high level
of social opportunities. But why?
Having worked in
the senior living industry for some time, this is a story I am quite familiar
with. Some may blame the elder for not taking advantage of her surroundings,
others blame the community for not having enough going on, while others search
for a medical diagnosis and miracle prescription drug to
solve the issues. What can we do to help?
